It’s not a matter of being clannish and praying only for members of your own clan (family). What is at issue here is that we the Church have to add to the responsibilities God has already laid upon us to bring our offspring up in the “nurture and admonition of the Lord.” (Eph. 6.4) We can at times take on non-biological additions to our family when we voluntarily – because of the love in our hearts and/or when directed by the Lord – assume someone as our prayer burden because of their evident need in any area. There was no umbilical cord attaching them to us at birth, but there is a stronger emotional attachment that sometimes lasts a lifetime.
As we go about our daily business there are others to whom we may become emotionally attached because of the evident need(s) in their lives and love will not let us ignore these glaring needs. I have often become aware of a tragedy (and there is such an abundance of these pitiful episodes in the world today!) and felt impelled to pray for persons involved. Depending on circumstances, I may not add them to my “official” list, but I will pray for them as long and as often as I feel the burden on my heart.
There may be a tendency to pull back at times, even in the direst of needs, because I am already overwhelmed by the sorrows of others – how can I bear this additional burden? We are only human and there is only so much a human can bear; only so many sorrows he can take on without shattering into a thousand jagged pieces. The griefs and unbearable burdens of a world overwhelmed with a staggering load of them are seen and heard every day on television and the radio.
You and I, we don’t momentarily pull back from the daunting list of needs and hurts and sorrows that are drowning the world because we don’t care. It’s just that we already have a sizable prayer list comprised of family and friends and we fear any additions to it will stretch our memories and our faith beyond their capacities. The list, we reason, will become unwieldy and so become ineffectual.
I have an answer to that concern, but be advised that I am not trying to fit you into my mold. Every believer in Christ is a unique individual and should not be forced to be like another believer, even a “perfect” one, in every detail. Following are two or three suggestions that may be helpful to you, perhaps with some tweaks to make them fit your personality or way of doing things.
- When your prayer list grows larger than your memory, write down a list of the names and their specific needs (briefly). When you pray lay the list before God, not that He needs it, but that the list helps your belief and aids your faulty memory.
- As you go before the throne of God, if your memory falters, consult the list and then pray for the needs in your words of the moment. Don’t parrot the words you have already written – that would be too mechanical. Get the name and the needs into your heart and pray the effectual, earnest prayer of the righteous servant of God. Believe me, it will be very effective.
- As you go about your daily tasks, write down any additional names that grab your emotions and your attention. The names and needs listed should not be those that are of the garden variety. That is, they should not be the short-lived needs that we all have and that God supplies in His wisdom and will. You will surely be moved by great tragedies and sorrows that break your heart. These call for great faith and much prayer and you should list them only if you choose. Perhaps you will not choose to list them because you know they are so distressing they will stay in your memory without any aid.
- Pray to God that He will bless you to pray in the Spirit often. It’s true that we don’t know how to pray as we should. We need God’s assistance in praying through us in sighings that convey a world of meaning and/or in other tongues. But to pray for these needs, you must first feel them deep within you and the Spirit will take over from there. But you must have a heart of compassion. If there is no feeling for the needs of another, there will be no praying in the Spirit for them. I did not flatly say you would not pray in the Spirit, just that when your heart is moved deeply for something or someone, God will see your compassion and give vent to your feelings by causing you to pray in words that are unintelligible to you but that carry a world of meaning to God.
If item #4 above is not clear to you, please read what Paul has to say about the matter of praying “in the Spirit”:
“In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groans that words cannot express. And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints in accordance with God's will.” (Rom. 8.26, 27 NIV)
The Church (or the Holy Spirit who inhabits its members) is the only thing that holds back the wrath of God from a fuller demonstration of its terrible effects in the world. Our presence here and our prayers rising constantly before the throne of God are like a dam holding back the waters of a flood. But the waters are rising fast and the fateful day will soon come when Christ shall call His people (the dam that is now holding back the wrath of God) away from this world to be with Jesus. Then, my sinner friend, what will you do?
Meanwhile we who have the Spirit of God within us are praying daily for the soon coming of our Lord and we are urging all who hear the call of the Spirit in their hearts to come quickly to Jesus who alone can save you from the wrath that will soon hereafter engulf this earth. Hasten, my brother, my sister, your wick is beginning to sputter as it nears the end of your present hope. I can give you no guarantee that God will grant you another reprieve after He calls His children out of this cauldron of trouble. Grace for you may be near the end.
Recent Comments